In my previous exploration, I discussed how to achieve your goals. Now, I want to focus on an essential step that precedes that journey: identifying what you genuinely want, particularly regarding your career. Since we spend so much of our lives working, aligning our careers with our passions and values is crucial for a meaningful life.

The strength of great empires has always rested on the intellectual curiosity of their people. For example, as the Roman Empire shifted its focus from learning to wealth, it faced decline. Similarly, the Ottoman Empire weakened when military pursuits overshadowed education. History teaches us that when societies pursue education solely for financial gain, they inevitably decline, undermining its true purpose: self-discovery and growth.

Understanding Your True Desires

Many struggle to discern their genuine desires, especially as they transition into adulthood. Some individuals possess a clear sense of direction, while others feel lost and stuck. So, how can you begin to uncover what you want?

One effective approach is to seek insights from experts, such as psychologists who specialise in human behaviour. Psychometric tests can provide valuable clues to your strengths and preferences. I took one before leaving school; initially, I dismissed it, but I later found that it offered valuable insights into my personality and inclinations. Deep down, I believe we all know what we want to do; it’s often a quiet fear that holds us back.

Practical Strategies for Discovery

  1. Follow Intrinsic Motivation: Pay attention to the activities you enjoy for their own sake, without external rewards. Consider what you would do for free – this type of motivation often points to fulfilling work.
  2. Identify Core Values: Reflect on what matters most to you. Is it helping others, creativity, or independence? Understanding your core values can guide you toward meaningful work.
  3. Experiment and Explore: Trying new experiences – whether through travel, volunteering, or exploring different industries – can reveal what truly excites you.
  4. Challenge Societal Expectations: Society often pressures us to pursue high-paying or prestigious careers. However, true satisfaction comes from work that aligns with your identity. Avoid letting others’ opinions dictate your path.
  5. Visualise Your Ideal Day: Imagine a day filled with fulfilment; this exercise can clarify roles that align with your natural interests and personality.

Conclusion

Consumer culture often influences our career choices by equating happiness with financial success. This mindset can lead us to prioritise money over fulfilment. True education empowers us to tap into our core interests, aligning our work with who we are.

As Earl Nightingale once said, “Success is the progressive realisation of a worthy ideal or goal.” A meaningful life largely stems from meaningful work, and the true purpose of education is to help us discover what that work is.

Mahabur Rahman

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